Why do cigar lovers find it so difficult to change brands? I’ll tell you why.
For years a book took up about an inch of space on my bookshelf called “The Bell Jar” by Sylvia Plath. I showed no interest in reading it. None. I have enough books so there’s no need for me to go to the library
But I do make a trip there when I’m planning to go out of town to find one or two audiobooks, usually biographies – never fiction – to make the trip a bit more tolerable. So, I go over to the audio section and troll for something that will excite me. And believe me, I’m not easy to please. As I cocked my head sideways to scan the titles, there staring me in the face on the second shelf was a pristine copy of the audiobook “The Bell Jar.” I was stunned.
I immediately picked it out, quickly found another audiobook, this one by Lisa Dunham, and headed to check out both. A strange vibration enveloped me and I honed in on that feeling. It was the first time in ages I began to look forward to going on a road trip.
A few days later I was packed and in the car headed for Indianapolis. A couple hours into the trip I became bored with my favorite radio station (87.7 FM), plus reception fades and slid the first disc of Plath’s magnum opus into the slot.
Instantaneously I fell in love with the narrator’s voice (Maggie Gyllenhaal) and began to listen to the words of a book that had been just collecting dust. I became totally engaged in the subject. Which is rare because “The Bell Jar” is a work of fiction by one of the most important poets of our time. Two disciplines I generally avoid, again especially in audiobooks.
To wit: “This heavily autobiographical novel (and only) by the late poet Sylvia Plath unfolds the story of Esther Greenwood, a brilliant, beautiful, and successful junior editor in New York City who undergoes a tragic nervous breakdown.” (Jacket)
To further explain, “the main character uses the bell jar as the primary metaphor for feelings of confinement and entrapment. She feels that she’s stuck in her own head, spinning around the same thoughts of self-doubt and dejection, over and over again, with no hope of escape. But she also uses the bell jar as a metaphor for society at large, for the way that people can be trapped inside stale social conventions and expectations.” (www.Shmoop.com)
Each time the disc paused, melodious, soft music in the minor mode gave me the heads up that I was going to have to slip in the next one. How could I have been so myopic to allow this book to just sit? “The Bell Jar” is steeped in Sylvia Plath’s own life, only she could call it fiction. And if truth be told, much of the content is from the mold of her very life.
I’ve read plenty of fiction, too, such as Stamm, Updike, Buckley, David Foster Wallace, Diski, Highsmith, etc. So I’m no stranger to the genre. But I never picked out an audiobook of fiction. I always found myself unable to concentrate on the storyline while driving. So I’ve tried.
What got to me was how could I be so utterly and solidly encased in a particular genre to ignore one that is a major brick in the walls of the written word? But my habit to read fiction in book form has been de rigueur for me for, well, practically since I learned how to read. Yes, I was in a rut. But I am able to pull myself out every now and then. How?
I discovered “Agnes” by Peter Stamm. I was reading a review in “New York Magazine” and the first line in the review was the first line in the story, “Agnes was dead.” That one three-word sentence hooked me. Then to top it off, I knew I would be traveling to New York in a few weeks and I would make it a point to stop into The Strand on Broadway, the most well-known bookseller not only in The Big Apple, but possibly the world, and seek out a copy.
So when I got to the store located in midtown Manhattan, I walked in the door under the scaffolding. I felt as if I had entered a cathedral and was about to embrace the Holy Grail. The delicate aroma of the thousands of books lured me deeper into the store. A bit on the dramatic side I’ll admit? I had to ask what section “Agnes” was in. Instinctively I knew it would be there. Voila! I slid out a copy, a perfect copy and held it in my hand. But it was the purchase of “Agnes” and then reading it that reopened my eyes to fiction many months ago. In fact, I just bought Stamm’s newest novel, “To the Back of Beyond.”
But old habits are indeed difficult to crack. So I quickly fell back into my rut of reading books of fiction and listening to biographies on audiobooks. But I would be saved once again. We all need sudden jolts at times to wake up. And that’s how I felt when I saw Plath’s masterpiece on the library’s shelf.
After my card was swiped and I checked the audiobooks out, I began to hold onto this feeling of breathless elation as one of the few times of late I can remember actually looking forward to a lengthy road trip, one that I had been dreading for the last few days. (Yes, in the beginning, I was a travel junkie, now I’m I stay-near-home addict, so this pull was exactly what I needed to continue to do my work.)
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We’re living in a world of incessant distractions and habitual behavior, so often it does take a thunderbolt to get our attention.
Thank God for storms.
So get out of your rut. In short, try a new cigar. It truly is a moment that could change your life, open your eyes, and allow you to taste the erotic sweetness of what this short life has to offer.